Why are we so unkind to fat people?

It remains a strange phenomenon, vethat. Although we know that discrimination on the basis of sex, skin color or sex is wrong, many people find it normal to blame fat people for being ugly, lazy or stupid. How is that possible?



The ladies of Fattitude made a documentary about fat discrimination and strive to change the negative connotation of the word 'fat' into something positive. How deep the hatred is, however, quickly became clear when one of the filmmakers was threatened and stalked immediately after the launch of their Kickstarter campaign.

Besides the fact that fat shaming is incredibly unkind, it also works counterproductive. Research shows that girls who are called 'fat' at a young age are more likely to develop obesity later on.



Lisa (248 kilos) is a feedee: "Sometimes he leads me?

She is 21, weighs 248 kilos and receives 7500 calories daily. Lisa is a feedee, or someone who likes to arrive for her friend. "My lunch consists of 2 plates of fries, with 6 fried snacks. And a whole bottle of cola. "

While most girls watch their figure around their twentieth line, Lisa (21) eats where and when she wants. She is now overweight and she is more than satisfied with that. However, that has not always been the case. "Actually, I've always been overweight. When I was about 11 years old, I weighed around 100 kilos. Not because I ate so much, but also because I have a tendency to become fat. Overweight is common in my family. "


Bullied
She was much fatter compared to Lisa's classmates. "That's why I've been bullied for almost my entire school time. They scolded me for 'pig' or 'fat bag', I was pinched and laughed at and they threw candy at me. Only when I met my friend did I start to like my figure. I was 16. I met him on a birthday. After this birthday, he contacted me and gave compliments about my figure. In the beginning I could hardly believe him; after all, I was 'the pig' and 'the fat man'. I thought he was just joking, but when he told me that he was on fuller women, soon the first dates followed. He continued to give compliments and taught me to look more positively at myself. "What are you beautiful," he said. Nowadays I get a nice feeling when I look in the mirror. To say that I like myself, no, but I feel much better now than when I was thinner. "



More and more food
Lisa now lives with her boyfriend for three years. She has arrived a lot during living together. "The extra food went unconscious in the beginning. My friend can cook very nice and regularly prepared bigger meals for me. My love for food grew by the day. Soon I noticed that the kilos flew and that I needed some more sizes. My friend had this through and gave me continuous compliments that I looked better with some 'extra'. That was how it went, until he realized that he would love it if I would arrive even more. This seemed fun and exciting to me and I wanted to do this for my friend. "



Lisa is not forced to eat. "Often I am triggered to eat. Then he offers me something or says, "Honey, do you fancy something tasty?" While he strokes my stomach. Usually he goes to the kitchen to get good things and he takes me. What kind of feeling do I get? A nice feeling! When he looks at me while he is eating, he sometimes gives compliments, but only his look is great at such a moment. "Still, Lisa is not doing it for her boyfriend. "I eat where and when I want. Often this is also just me. Moreover, many people think that we are constantly working on the fact that I have to arrive, but actually I just like it very much to eat. "



7500 calories per day
Women need an average of 2000 calories per day. Lisa gets about 7,500 daily, most of it in the evening. "In the morning I eat six or seven sandwiches with cheese or sausage. An hour later I eat a pack of biscuits plus one or two chocolate bars with coffee. In the afternoon I like to eat fried food. It often happens that I eat two plates of fries, eating five or six fried snacks. This with a whole bottle of cola. Then I start my 'snacks'. These usually consist of chips and donuts. In the evening I eat about three plates of potatoes, vegetables and meat and also a pizza or hairdresser and occasionally I put the fryer once again. After dinner, usually during watching TV, I start with sweets: chips, nuts, ice cream, cake, chocolate ... I like everything! Since I do not sleep with an empty stomach, I eat a hairdresser's or a kebab sandwich before bedtime. "

"The most I have ever eaten in one day is about 10,000 calories, and I just had a huge bite, which included my" normal "diet, plus a whole cake, a pack of donuts and chocolate bars." Lisa is happy with Lisa's way of life, and they are happy, as long as Lisa is. "My family has nothing against it, there is a lot of overweight in my family, so they say little about my overweight. know that my friend loves full-bodied ladies and see me enjoy it, and they think that's the most important thing. "



Health issues
Because of Lisa's overweight, she can not do some things anymore. "I can not do things like closing my shoes. I also do not have a job anymore. A while ago I worked in a cafeteria, but because standing for days was no longer possible, I resigned. For the rest, I can move very well. By means of a number of tools



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